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Would you like to tell us about a lower price? A brutally honest look at our failed legal policies on drug addiction, prostitution and adult entertainment which are bankrupting and incarcerating Americans for political gain. Read more Read less. Kindle Edition File Size: Customer reviews There are no customer reviews yet. Share your thoughts with other customers. Write a product review. Feedback If you need help or have a question for Customer Service, contact us.

Would you like to report poor quality or formatting in this book? Click here Would you like to report this content as inappropriate? Click here Do you believe that this item violates a copyright? Your recently viewed items and featured recommendations. Much of the bonding effect of sex is chemical. It's all mental conditioning. The girlfriend is producing a dopamine hit that is simply too small. Young men also suffer from "deathgrip" gripping the penis too hard during masturbation which results in underwhelming sensations when having vaginal intercourse, a vagina can't grip like a fist.

So with all that depression sets in young guys feel like shit, they don't know what's wrong, they feel bad that they can't please their partners,etc and all that just circulates. There are countless success stories of men addicted to porn overcoming it and resolving their problems through sobriety. For some it can take a couple weeks for others six months to a year to fully throw the yoke of porn.

Bottom line anything you read that says "you can't become addicted to porn" or "porn addiction isn't real" is bullshit. Anyone who says this doesn't know what they're talking about. Now I don't disagree with Dr. I am addicted to porn because I choose to be lazy I choose not to fight it. I am not making enough effort to get away from it and that's my fault. When I view porn that's a choice I make. It's the same with druggies. But porn is a drug and it is capable of creating addiction, no doubt.

It could be that acceptance and recognition of E. Porn may play no real role in this increase. Just wanted to point that out I have plenty of other issues with the logic of both you and Dr. I just don't feel like writing a novel right now. I didn't say it here, but have said elsewhere - focusing on whether a man's penis gets erect merely feeds the belief that male sexuality is about an erection. Sex is about a lot of things, and the quality of a man's erection is merely one factor.

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When I see men with ED, young or old, it is an opportunity to discuss with them the broad array of sexual behaviors open to them and their partner. The panic about porn causing ED is based on a very narrow, simplistic view of male sexuality. Personally, I think men have value in bed and can achieve personal satisfaction, regardless of an erection. Sex and sexuality spans so much more then vaginal intercourse. I understand that in a relationship women are very turned on by their man getting a powerful erection as a result of the attraction he has for them.

In the movie "this is 40" paul rudd tells his wife that he took a viagra and it killed the mood for her. I was briefly in a relationship with a wonderful woman. I could tell her she was beautiful and I wanted her but I couldn't show her. Was it a result of my penis?

Not really per se, and nobody will ever admit it; but I think it was. You actually enjoy being with a woman more than wanting to watch and masturbate to porn. I'm the same way. I get hard easily whenever I am around my girlfriend. Those that spent years with porn masturbating their lives away don't feel the same. They get more of that impulse to masturbate to porn. They get a lot harder getting off to porn vs a woman. They simply are sexually attracted to porn over women, unlike you and me.

Recent research is finding that pornography may actually be causing impotence in young men when the time comes to have sex with real women. Some might call that poetic justice. Hey sam you get get hard without looking at porn. Porn is a tool for masturbation. This whole I get hard only to porn is stupid. Some erect difintley then others. Crack is a chemical you add to your body that has effects on your body. These are chemicals in addition to dopamine. Dopamine has an effect, sure, but so do crack and alcohol.

With masturbation there's just dopamine. So you're saying it's not the crack or the alcohol, but just the dopamine? Medical science awaits your experiments examining the difference between suddenly stopping masturbation, suddenly stopping crack, and suddenly stopping alcohol.

Withdrawal is drastically different, I assure you. Right there, you can see there's a difference. It ain't just about dopamine. Porn is not crack or alcohol. There may still be a dopamine conditioning process, but comparing these "addictions" is ludicrous. There is obviously the chemical side of the addiction where nicotine steps in and gets you addicted. There is a reward circuit response to various stimuli as well. What happens there is that once you carry out some sort of pleasurable activity, you start to enjoy it more and more and build that connection.

Whenever the impulse kicks in to want to carry out that activity, you got a dopamine drive similar to that of other addictions since those other drugs also go through the same pleasure reward circuit. That is why masturbating to porn leads to a similar pleasure addiction to drugs. This pleasure addiction is also why people actually orgasm to weird things like balloons, cars, etc. This difference in outcomes and susceptibility to addiction emerges from an empowerment parenting approach that turns over control to the kids as they get older, w a trust that they are good, and can define for themselves what they want their sexuality to mean.

This parenting approach differs from a pure moralistic power and control version of parenting, which says "this is what is right, and if you do wrong, I will punish the behavior. Some christian traditions re sexuality-like dualism-appear to increase this repressive or "externalized shame based" view or sexuality and arousal, make it worse, as they define the problem as external like satan's temptations, and therefore, promote a type of internal war w your own self.

To make things worse, many add that thoughts and desires are sins in and of themaselves. These factors appear to explain why most people DO NOT escalate in "addiction" to porn, while people w any or all of the conditions I list, including non fully processed physical, sexual and emotional abuse seem to be AT WAY MORE at risk to develop all kinds of destructive "addictions". In other words, adverse childhood experiences, and well intended, but wrongheaded information from well intended parents and mentors "prepare" your circuitry to be more vulnerable to a host of destructive behaviors-the same problems emerge as a chaotic background.

In contrast, the view that kids are wired to be good, and can be trusted to do the right thing when it comes to their sexual boundaries, usually learn a non-repressive, empowerment, internally defined view of their sexuality that does not produce the shame and level of emotional neediness that addicts generally exhibit in the troubled area. A set up to focus on external solutions and internal battles replaces a happy sex life w oneself or w an emotionally intimate partner and friends. Safe relationships, and accurate non-shame based sexual information re where our sexual arousal patterns and desires come from, can combine w a non-power control interpersonal relationship skills approaches to act as "inoculations" for our children against not only porn addiction, but a host of other destructive patterns.

The "sexual thought desire is inherently the problem" produces all sorts of sexual hang ups, destructiveness, and shame-which actually fuels addictions. The resulting confusion and feelings of powerlessness in the sexual arena become a classic example of good people w good intentions and wrong info producing the self fulfilling prophetic "fear struggle dance" called sexual addiction. THAT produces eating disorders Therapists like you have done your work so well that many have no shame about porn use I had no intention of comparing the severity of the addictions.

I am illustrating that the idea that people can become addicted to porn is no different then the idea that people can become addicted to crack. Nobody would argue that crack is a real addiction. People become addicted to porn in the exact same fashion as drugs. It's a chemical conditioning process. Is crack more severe? Absolutely, because like you said, your introducing an external chemical supply. With porn the body is working with the limited supply it can produce naturally. Is the withdrawal more severe? I wouldn't say so. I recall a light-hearted attempt by a group of around 12 young men in an online forum to give up pornography for one week.

Not one of them lasted more than 36 hours. This somewhat disturbing result is replicated elsewhere. See the link below. Keep rationalizing, keep burying those heads in the sand! I am a woman, I love hardcore porn. I watch it alone, I watch it with lovers.

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I know a lot of women just like me. Why is porn use still framed as a male proclivity only. A relatively small proportion of women use pornography and it's usually in the context of pleasing their male partners. Regardless, the fact that women use pornography doesn't negate any of the arguments against pornography, including the largely unregulated, unethical and sometimes illegal production of the material or it's effects on wider society.

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That's also been historically true of a lot of types of sex that, as the culture opens up, turns out to be the results of cultural repression than inherent male female differences. I'm 60, but when I was a kid, people said things like "a relatively small minotiy of women like enter aforementioned, masturbation, sex toys, Back then, you could have accurately said people really are not into!!! This is a well recognized phenomenon in all addictions.

Pornography is the epitome of sexual repression. Salt and health hysteria? The anti porn masturbation movement actually has a tangible and scientific basis for what it puts out there. No scientific premise behind it. Marijuana hysteria was pushed by the government and, specifically, conservatives who typically base their social views off of religion, tradition, etc.

Again, no scientific premise to back it up. I'm interested in this area. What would you consider the "evidence" involved that supports your comment? Everyone needs to shut up and get some studies done tbh. We are truly at that stage that we can get no further without them; the hypotheses, scientific links, self-reports etc - done to death. Actually, the people -- government officials, educators, law enforcement people, medical professionals -- variously behind the various hysteria would certainly say that there were acting on evidence available to them.

Just as with the high-speed porn hysteria, there were many self-reports from drug addicts that they got on the road to perdition and hard drug use by smoking marijuana. For decades, was considered a gateway drug. Of course, now that hysteria is discredited. On the salt and diet front, for decades, the best scientific evidence was that salt wrecks your health.

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People went on hysterical no salt diets. But just last week, the Centers for Disease Control reported that there is no reason to drastically reduce one's salt diet. On the masturbation hysteria front, there was much medical, psychological, and religious basis to bolster the arguments that masturbation was ruinous to ones psyche and future sexuality. Doctors saw in the self-reports of boys and men. Pastors saw in the self-reports. Et cetera, et cetera.


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No one says that we should shut down the research. But let's do the research dispassionately, and with awareness of the limitations of how we're doing the looking. And let's get some decent stats on this material. How tough would be to survey non-religious, liberal college kids with no moral scruples to get in the way, and ask them as part of a larger survey whether they think porn is interfering with their sex lives?

Durex International Sex Survey, how about it? I agree that all evidence should be looked at dispassionately, and when it isn't-as in the case of Christianity's dualism, people are harmed while others proclaim that because their personal experience is wrongly assumed to apply to more of the general population than is true. These core values and feeling outcomes of such development include: They also include an ability to know one's feelings and needs and be able to put them out in a non aggressive way.

As opposed to the use of fear and punishment for punishment's sake to produce morality in what are assumed to be untrustworthy beings that must be controlled. Anecdotal evidence is notoriously inaccurate. It's already established that visual and auditory input can cause the same brain changes as drug addiction. See "pathological gambling" in DSM5 as an addiction. PS - the new DSM5 will have a behavioral addiction category.

The reason I brought up masturbation is because it is often an accompaniment to watching pornography, but more importantly, because I worked with a slew of people over the years that made the same errors in thinking and conceptualizing their problem as outside of themselves — instead of the maladaptive "addictive" attempt at soothing whatever anxieties they never learned to deal with directly in their relationship connections — whether applied to pornography or masturbation — the process and various levels of outcomes are similar.

Only when the relationship connection is emotionally safe re differences, and all vulnerable feelings does the close feeling through porn or masturbation last after the penis exits Because only in a safe functioning relationship is the metaphor applicable to the real relationship-if one exists.

It is also true that "it has been established that visual and auditory input can cause the same brain changes as drug addiction. Have you been keeping up with the statements of the American Society of Addiction Medicine? For some folks, cutting back on overstimulation will yield more lasting results than attempting to find other issues. And for some, both tactics will be needed to recover.

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I don't disagree re the synergistic influence of both. I just believe that the internal wiring after about 3 years is the primary cause, and then we go from there. The external locus of control type focus of our parenting models for ages in our dominant aggressive society are also inevitably influenced towards many things that can become addictions I also wonder about whether the brain is "softened up" or influenced through over AND under-stimulation-especially if the parent at that time is not "attuned" well to end up having a "hair trigger" on that susceptibility to over-stimulation.

Maybe "hardened up" would be more accurate I agree, though i also notice that the medical analysis is often looking at the changes AFTER they occur, and often overlook previous influences. There is also the tendency of the addiction field wh a lot of it has its [understandable] roots in the importance of gaining legitimacy as a disease as opposed to alcoholism being previously mostly seen as a moral weakness. We have become so specialized that we sometimes have become tree brilliant for instance, re addictions , and forest stupid!

This is not to say that for a small minority, the answer is not some wired in predisposition to be a sexual addict However, I think you're mistaken to assume that only a few people get hooked on the Internet. I suspect it will turn out to be a lot like food addiction. A third of adult Americans are food addicts. Supernormal versions of so-called "natural rewards" junk food, Internet porn, Internet novelty can be riskily enticing to a bigger percentage of people than drugs.

The Internet addiction target may well be moving far more quickly than you know, and sweeping a far larger percentage into its net than you currently believe - people who wouldn't normally have the background that would leave them vulnerable to addiction. Eating disorders and addiction disorders are not the same. Not clinically, and not neurologically. Eating disorder therapists argue strongly that applying addiction theory to eating can be harmful. It is certainly done, as in the Overeaters Anonymous group, but we must be clinically careful with this analogy.

I'm not saying all eating disorders are addiction. I'm saying that most people who are obese have a food addiction. The rest, he says, are addicts. Addiction caused brain changes are very specific and not the same as seen in adverse childhood effects. The first major change is accumulation of deltafosb in the nucleus accumbens, which alters dynorphin levels and glutamate receptors leading to sensitization. This is behind cravings to use and inability to control use of whatever you are addicted to.

As continued use continues, desensitization occurs with is a decline in Dopamine D2 receptors, and a loss of CRF receptors. This results in abnormally low activation of the reward systems by natural rewards.


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